Monday, February 16, 2009
The inner spoon
Right, so while cruising the interweb as Ive been doing alot of lately in hopes of finding me a job, I came upon this website www.yourtango.com and an article about being the inside spooner.
Now at first I hadn't the foggiest of ideas what it meant to be an inside spooner, my mind immediately went dirty and began thinking whoever wrote the article was a taker BUT not so. Come to find out its something that i like as well, NOT being a taker just to clear that up, never have never will but if you do good for you :). However being an inside spooner is someone who likes to be hugged while laying down.
Jesus christ is that what its being called now? These names for the simpliest of things seem to be something i need to catch up on man. So anyway, while continuing to read the article i began to think more and more about it and personally i like it especially after a quick romp around the sheets its good to just lay there and have her (or him if thats your frequency) just fling her arms around you and hold you instead of you doing even MORE work. Sometimes I want to feel loved too :(, not just the plumber and occasional gardner. I mean im the one doing the work and after laying down pipes i'd like to have my other hold me and say "hey baby, i love you" why must I be the one to do all that after all the work?
I am willing to bet that most men like to be the "inside spooner" but dont say it because (1) someone may take it the wrong way if you use those words (2) in the unlikely event that someone does understand what you are saying, they will probably think you are a beat on the soft side, not the same guy you were playing rugby with the other day and you may lose credibility amongst your mates. Me, I dont play rugby anymore and most of my mates know the deal that it wouldnt be in their best interest of health to think me to be soft and besides im confident in my un softness. That's not to say that I can't be or im not capable of being soft when it calls for it.
Anywho, just thought i'd share that and i'd like to say yea Im the inside spoon at times.
Say something!
Now at first I hadn't the foggiest of ideas what it meant to be an inside spooner, my mind immediately went dirty and began thinking whoever wrote the article was a taker BUT not so. Come to find out its something that i like as well, NOT being a taker just to clear that up, never have never will but if you do good for you :). However being an inside spooner is someone who likes to be hugged while laying down.
Jesus christ is that what its being called now? These names for the simpliest of things seem to be something i need to catch up on man. So anyway, while continuing to read the article i began to think more and more about it and personally i like it especially after a quick romp around the sheets its good to just lay there and have her (or him if thats your frequency) just fling her arms around you and hold you instead of you doing even MORE work. Sometimes I want to feel loved too :(, not just the plumber and occasional gardner. I mean im the one doing the work and after laying down pipes i'd like to have my other hold me and say "hey baby, i love you" why must I be the one to do all that after all the work?
I am willing to bet that most men like to be the "inside spooner" but dont say it because (1) someone may take it the wrong way if you use those words (2) in the unlikely event that someone does understand what you are saying, they will probably think you are a beat on the soft side, not the same guy you were playing rugby with the other day and you may lose credibility amongst your mates. Me, I dont play rugby anymore and most of my mates know the deal that it wouldnt be in their best interest of health to think me to be soft and besides im confident in my un softness. That's not to say that I can't be or im not capable of being soft when it calls for it.
Anywho, just thought i'd share that and i'd like to say yea Im the inside spoon at times.
Say something!
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